Generated by All in One SEO v5.0.0.1, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. # John Kinyon | Mediate Your Life Transform Conflict into Connection & Opportunities ## Sitemaps - [XML Sitemap](https://johnkinyon.com/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website. ## Posts - [Blog](https://johnkinyon.com/blog/) - [The Heart of MYL: The 3Chairs Model](https://johnkinyon.com/the-heart-of-myl-the-3chair-model/) - Mediate Your Life (MYL) began in 2002 as a co-creation with my dear colleague Ike Lasater in our work of Nonviolent Communication (NVC). For me, MYL arose from a deep desire for connection and wellbeing in the midst of intense conflict and shattering loss in my childhood, and later, in a profound existential grappling with - [How We Meet the Impossible, As the Old Ways Unravel](https://johnkinyon.com/how-we-meet-the-impossible-as-the-old-ways-unravel/) - We are moving through a time that feels disorienting, even overwhelming. What once felt stable is now shifting under our feet. The familiar structures — relationships, society, identity, purpose — are shaking. Beneath the surface, I think many feel lost, or quietly anxious, or simply unsure of how to meet what’s unfolding. In the midst - [The Political is Personal: Our Individual and Collective Journey from Disconnection to Reconnection](https://johnkinyon.com/the-human-story-of-disconnection-to-reconnection-our-individual-and-collective-journey/) - We are living in a time of profound and accelerating change and challenges — a convergence of ecological destabilization, social division, political breakdown, and technological disruption. These crises are not separate; they are deeply interwoven and amplify one another in ways that threaten all humanity and the life of our planet. More and more we - [The Neuroscience of Emotion Circuits and Navigating Territories of Conflict with Sarah Peyton, Part 2 [MYL Podcast Episode]](https://johnkinyon.com/the-neuroscience-of-emotion-circuits-and-navigating-territories-of-conflict-with-sarah-peyton-part-2/) - In Part 2 of my conversation with Sarah Peyton, we dive deeper into the neuroscience of conflict and emotional healing, bridging the Mediate Your Life framework with the groundbreaking research of affective neuroscientist Jaak Panksepp. Together, we... - [Yoga, NVC, and Mediate Your Life with Nat Kendall [MYL Podcast Episode]](https://johnkinyon.com/yoga-nvc-and-mediate-your-life-with-nat-kendall/) - In this expansive and heartfelt episode of the Mediate Your Life podcast, John is joined by yoga teacher and musician Nat Kendall for a conversation that weaves together wisdom from the ancient philosophy and practices of yoga, Nonviolent... - [Spaces for Individual, Societal, and Planetary Healing Through Conflict: Across the Divide](https://johnkinyon.com/across-the-divide-spaces-for-individual-societal-and-planetary-healing-through-conflict/) - Across the Divide is a process designed to facilitate and support healing spaces of empathic group conversation for individuals and communities around the world on the polarizing societal, political, and cultural issues of our time — where conflict and disconnection run deepest, and healing and connection are most needed. The Across The Divide Process is - [A “Unividual” Perspective on Politics and Polarization with Philosopher Tim Freke [MYL Podcast Episode]](https://johnkinyon.com/a-unividual-perspective-on-politics-and-polarization-with-philosopher-tim-freke/) - In this compelling episode of the Mediate Your Life Podcast, John’s guest is pioneering philosopher Tim Freke. Tim is the author of 35 books that have been translated into 15 languages. The conversation explores how Tim’s groundbreaking,... - [Trauma, Conflict, and Healing with Sarah Peyton, Part 1 [MYL Podcast Episode]](https://johnkinyon.com/trauma-conflict-and-healing-with-sarah-peyton-part-1/) - In this fascinating and heartwarming episode, I sit down with Sarah Peyton, a renowned expert in trauma healing, relational neuroscience, interpersonal neurobiology, and Nonviolent Communication (NVC). Sarah’s work bridges the worlds of science,... - [The Mystery and Power of the Triangle to Transform Conflict](https://johnkinyon.com/the-mystery-and-power-of-the-triangle-to-transform-conflict/) - A Warm and Welcoming Hello to You All, As we navigate the complex challenges of our time, I have been thinking a lot about the structure of the triangle. In this newsletter, I talk about the layers of meaning in this symbol and how it relates to mediating our lives and applying this understanding in - [Embracing Freedom and Love in Intimate Relationship, with Nicole Gibson, Part 2](https://johnkinyon.com/embracing-freedom-and-love-in-intimate-relationship-with-nicole-gibson-part-2/) - In this episode of the Mediate Your Life podcast, John continues his moving conversation with Nicole Gibson, founder of Love Out Loud. In this part of the conversation they use the Mediate Your Life map of internal mediation to delve into Nicole's... - [Crossing Political Differences and Divides with Cory Tyler](https://johnkinyon.com/crossing-political-differences-and-divides-with-cory-tyler/) - In this episode of the Mediate Your Life podcast, John Kinyon engages in a heartfelt conversation with Cory Tyler, exploring the transformative potential of Nonviolent Communication (NVC) in our politically divided world. Cory, drawing from his... - [Navigating Self-Care and Activism with Palestinian Activist Ashira Darwish](https://johnkinyon.com/navigating-self-care-and-activism-with-palestinian-activist-ashira-darwish/) - In this episode of the Mediate Your Life podcast, John Kinyon engages in a deeply moving conversation with Ashira Darwish, a Palestinian activist, journalist, and founder of Catharsis Holistic Healing. She was also featured in the powerful... - [Embracing Freedom and Love with Nicole Gibson, Part 1](https://johnkinyon.com/embracing-freedom-and-love-with-nicole-gibson-part-1/) - In this episode of the Mediate Your Life podcast, John engages in a deeply moving, inspiring, and insightful conversation with Nicole Gibson, founder of Love Out Loud, an organization dedicated to scaling community and leadership capacity for... - [Standing for Justice and Empathy with Humility](https://johnkinyon.com/standing-for-justice-and-empathy-with-humility/) - In the delicate balance between standing for justice and promoting empathy, I struggle with how to hold these two together simultaneously. At the heart of this challenge for me is the recognition that when calling out (or “calling in,” as it’s now said) what I see as an injustice, it’s easy to fall into promoting - [Our Way Out of Hell](https://johnkinyon.com/our-way-out-of-hell/) - Exploring narratives on Israel-Palestine, examining needs, empathy, and conflict resolution. Can prioritizing mutual well-being offer a way out of hell? - [No Bad Parts – In the Violence of Our World](https://johnkinyon.com/no-bad-parts-in-the-violence-of-our-world/) - Understanding, compassion, and reconciliation and healing can happen even when extreme, harmful, destructive events are happening. Understanding "parts" is key. - [Empathic Understanding in War — A Revolutionary Act For Peace](https://johnkinyon.com/empathic-understanding-in-war/) - The violence and suffering happening in Israel-Palestine is excruciating to witness. I can only imagine how truly horrific and unbearable of an experience it is for those living there. So much is being written and spoken about what’s happening. What can I possibly add to the conversation that could be helpful? There is talk about - [Navigating Conflict and the Hero/Heroine's Journey](https://johnkinyon.com/navigating-conflict-and-the-hero-heroines-journey/) - It's so interesting to me how what’s new builds on what has been, but in unseen ways. I see now how what is emerging in me about what is needed in the world has been growing and developing since early in my life and in the early roots with Nonviolent Communication and Mediate Your Life - [Holding Paradox to Bridge Our Differences](https://johnkinyon.com/holding-paradox-to-bridge-our-differences/) - Bridging our differences is, I believe, what we humans now need to do to survive and support the flourishing of Earth, yet it seems impossibly out of reach. We may think we need to choose between pessimism or optimism, but why not be both? What happens if we hold the paradox? There is much to - [MLK, Nonviolence, and Communication](https://johnkinyon.com/mlk-nonviolence-and-communication/) - Today in the U.S. is the holy-day each year we celebrate and honor the life and legacy of Martin Luther King, Jr., his nonviolent approach to social change calling society towards the soaring ideals enshrined in the U.S. Declaration of Independence of freedom and equality for all. Dr. King was a tremendous light shining out - [Fear and Trust Facing the Year Ahead](https://johnkinyon.com/fear-and-trust-facing-the-year-ahead/) - At the boundary between 2021 and 2022, looking out over the future landscape of the coming year, I see conflict, violence and suffering growing and spreading in the world, And I also see, at the heart of the dissolution, a tremendous light getting brighter and brighter, brilliant and beautiful. Sharing with a dear friend and - [Becoming Regenerative](https://johnkinyon.com/becoming-regenerative/) - I am feeling deeply inspired by the regeneration movement. Paul Hawken, an environmental activist for many decades and one the leading voices in this movement, has written a new book called Regeneration: Ending the Climate Crisis in One Generation. The movement as I understand it is about not only living sustainably on the planet but - [Inoculation For Outrage](https://johnkinyon.com/inoculation-for-outrage/) - This weekend was the 20th anniversary of the September 11 attack on the U.S.. Thinking of 9/11 reminds Americans of the trauma of that day and entering into the “War on Terror.” It can remind us also of the daily trauma and terror of the staggering amounts of violence and human-generated suffering still happening around - [Our Afghan Story Revisited](https://johnkinyon.com/our-afghan-story-revisited/) - Close to 20 years ago I went to Pakistan with my close colleague Ike Lasater to work with Afghan tribal elders in a refugee camp along the border. It was January 2002, soon after the 9/11 terrorist attacks in the U.S. and our bombings and invasion of Afghanistan. It was a particularly dangerous time for - [Code Red for Humanity](https://johnkinyon.com/code-red-for-humanity/) - The United Nations Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change on Monday released a major report of over 200 leading scientists from around the world confirming dire, catastrophic consequences from climate change if we humans don't take rapid, radical action. Although we have been hearing about the potential effects of climate change for decades, Monday’s report from - [Being Held and Transformed in the Formless](https://johnkinyon.com/being-held-and-transformed-in-the-formless/) - Are you, like me, more and more often feeling a depth of grief seeing ways that we humans are relating to each other and to this beautiful living Earth? As we stare into the abyss, what can give us the strength and courage to hold the enormity of the pain and conflict, and transform it - [Feminine Power](https://johnkinyon.com/feminine-power/) - In my last blog I spoke about my journey with faith and courage and how that has come about through the relationship with my wife, Schena. Together we are on a path to bring more empathic connection to the world one conversation at a time. Schena is launching a new platform called Chai with Schena, - [Returning Home](https://johnkinyon.com/returning-home/) - I’ve lately been thinking back on my childhood and remembering how I would look to Nature and Life for a mothering spiritual presence that was absent in physical form. I’m sure I didn’t think of it this way then, but as I look back I believe that’s what I was doing. It has been with - [Faith and Courage](https://johnkinyon.com/faith-and-courage/) - I want to write about faith and courage, and share with you about a particular core conflict dynamic with my wife Schena that has been quite repetitive and challenging for us over our now almost 19 years of marriage. I have grown enormously over the years learning how to truly live and apply the skills I - [Resistance](https://johnkinyon.com/resistance/) - I deeply believe that humanity’s path out of this time of growing crisis is to not only support a new way of being but to also resist the current social-political-economic system that is killing us and life on the planet. The way I see to resist, however, is with empathy and care. As I understand - [Reaching Critical Mass](https://johnkinyon.com/reaching-critical-mass/) - This week as the U.S. population continues to be dangerously divided on who won the presidential election, and the surging pandemic takes its devastating toll, I have been more deeply than ever contemplating the question, how can empathic communication go further out into the world to help people and the planet? What came first were - [Across the Aisle](https://johnkinyon.com/across-the-aisle/) - As tensions ratchet up around the U.S. presidential election results, and more and more common is heard the phrase “civil war,” we need some way to bring the temperature down. We seem to be moving towards inhabiting different worlds of alternate realities, parallel universes of perspective, experience, and belief, with the very real potential for - [Making the Evolutionary Leap](https://johnkinyon.com/making-the-evolutionary-leap/) - It’s the end of August 2020 in the time of the Covid-19 pandemic. Last week in the U.S. was the online Democratic National Convention, and this week is the Republican Convention. The difference between the narratives of the two parties is astounding, as different as night and day. The differences of belief people hold around - [Liberty and Justice for All?](https://johnkinyon.com/liberty-and-justice-for-all/) - This past weekend was the 4th of July, Independence Day holiday in the U.S. It is meant to be a celebration of liberty, equality, and opportunity. But instead of celebration I feel deep mourning and pain. The American mythology is that liberty, equality, and opportunity are for everyone. Yet from the formation of this country - [Control](https://johnkinyon.com/control/) - I believe we’re seeing in the world the inevitable effects of the temptation for us humans to use our intelligence to control – Nature, people, groups, nations, ourselves — and control so easily slides into domination, oppression, and exploitation. It’s inevitable what happens in the paradigm of separation and materialism in which we live. Control - [Outrage](https://johnkinyon.com/outrage/) - I want to write about outrage, the way my mind and heart and belly can flare at the wrongness I see in the world, especially at the people who I see as thinking and acting wrongly. The impulse is so compelling, so visceral, primal. They’re destroying the country, and the whole world! If they would - [In Conversation with the Great Transition of our Time — In our Lives, and In the World](https://johnkinyon.com/in-conversation-with-the-great-transition-of-our-time-in-our-lives-and-in-the-world/) - It seems we have entered the time of The Great Transition.Our ancestors have spoken of this time.Earth’s ecosystems have been giving us her soft messages for a while now, gracefully collapsing under our dedication to consumption and domination. We’re starting to see this great conversation of epic forces more clearly now on societal levels, all - [Answering the call](https://johnkinyon.com/answering-the-call/) - As we move through this very difficult time, I believe a practice of empathy and mindfulness in conversation with ourselves and others is key to maintaining our health and well-being, and to being able to find ways to respond toward the greater collective good we envision is possible. I hope you are reaching out to - [The Future of Democracy](https://johnkinyon.com/the-future-of-democracy/) - “It is for us the living... to be dedicated here to the unfinished work which [others]... have thus far so nobly advanced. It is rather for us to be here dedicated to the great task remaining before us – that government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the - [Economics, Politics, and Conversation Based in Universal Health](https://johnkinyon.com/economics-political-conversation-and-universal-health/) - The U.S. congress has now passed four massive financial stimulus/relief bills. From what I have seen, heard, and read my understanding is that a large portion of support from these bills (trillions of dollars) is going to large corporations and the wealthy, including big tax benefits. Whereas other segments of the population are receiving a - [Empathic Conversation & Politics](https://johnkinyon.com/empathic-connection-politics/) - As I write this, it is just a few days after the U.S. Senate acquitted Donald Trump of impeachment. It is no surprise to me that Trump proclaimed himself completely vindicated and exonerated of any misdeeds. What has been shocking and disturbing to me (just when I thought I could no longer be shocked by - [Radical Understanding in a Post-Truth World](https://johnkinyon.com/radical-understanding-in-our-post-truth-world/) - The Coronavirus pandemic is bringing to light aspects of society that were already increasingly showing signs of dysfunction and unhealth but now are more visible. One of these is how we as a society relate to truth. Through the marvel of the internet we have access to virtually unlimited amounts of information and opinions presented - [Radical Understanding In a Post-Truth World: Part 2](https://johnkinyon.com/radical-understanding-in-a-post-truth-world-part-2/) - As difficult as it can be to do, the practice of radical empathic understanding — letting go attachment or desire for shared belief — becomes in my view not only a meaningful and valuable personal challenge but also a way to contribute to the larger world culture of “post-truth.” It may be a way that - [Empathy and Mindfulness with Inner Conversations of Fear and Anxiety](https://johnkinyon.com/empathy-and-mindfulness-with-inner-conversations-of-fear-and-anxiety/) - I am wondering how you are doing with the impacts of the Coronavirus? How intense is the fear and anxiety for you? Are you scared about protecting and providing for yourself and those you love? As we humans deal with the intensity of this challenge that Nature is bringing to us, it is so easy - [Care for us, and them, during these difficult times](https://johnkinyon.com/care-for-us-and-them-during-these-difficult-times/) - As we humans deal with the global challenge of Coronavirus, I am seeing the way systems here in the U.S. are set up and functioning in ways that make the non-wealthy particularly vulnerable. The strong government support and social safety nets we had decades ago have been drastically weakened over time, and now as this - [Searching Together For A Way Forward](https://johnkinyon.com/searching-together-for-a-way-forward/) - In the middle of the road of my life I awoke in a dark wood where the true way was wholly lost.–DANTE Have you had times in your life when things seemed dire and impossible to resolve, where every direction you could imagine had consequences you deeply didn’t want? The mind goes round and round - [Building Empathic Community in Organizations, Networks, and in our Personal Lives](https://johnkinyon.com/empathic-community/) - I want to write about faith,about the way the moon risesover cold snow, night after nightfaithful even as it fades from fullness,slowly becoming that last curving and impossiblesliver of light before the final darkness.But I have no faith myselfI refuse it even the smallest entry.Let this then, my small poem,like a new moon, slender and ## Pages - [Mediate Your Life Home](https://johnkinyon.com/) - Train with MYL Learning Materials Mediation Podcast What is Mediate Your Life?Over 25 years, Mediate Your Life (MYL) has developed to be a highly effective and reliable mediation and conflict coaching process, and has also become a powerful methodology of Self-Leadership for mediating and navigating one's own life and relationships through challenges. MYL provides training - [Trainings](https://johnkinyon.com/trainings/) - Mediate Your Life TRAININGS MYL offers training programs in professional development and personal growth through Mediation and Conflict Coaching trainings and MYL Journey courses. The professional development program offers a certification path. Trainings run from weeks to year-long, with different pathways to deepen your professional and personal development, experience growth and healing through inner and - [Introduction to Nonviolent Communication](https://johnkinyon.com/intro-to-nvc/) - Foundations of Mediate Your Life Train with an MYL Certified Trainer Foundations of Mediate Your LifeThis 4-week introduction course is designed specifically for those wanting to pursue MYL training and who have little or no previous experience with the Nonviolent Communication (NVC) components and principles. Whether you are interested in learning to guide yourself to - [Funding Mediate Your Life's Expansion](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-expansion/) - Expanding Mediate Your Life's Impact and Contribution in the World Funding Mediate Your Life's Expansion A Vision That Has Guided 25 Years Twenty years ago, a vision came to me that has never left: I am looking out over a vast, open-air courtyard filled with people in groups of three practicing with conflict situations, with - [Mediate Your Life Fundraising Information](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-expansion-plan/) - Expanding Mediate Your Life's Impact and Contribution in the World Now is the Time After 25 years of development and evolution, Mediate Your Life has become a refined and proven model, system, and methodology. A growing network of practitioners spans the globe. This is not a project seeking funding to discover something new. It is - [MYL Conflict Coaching Training 2026 Thursdays Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/conflict-coaching-training-2026-homepage/) - Mediate Your Life Program Conflict Coaching Training Homepage 6-Month Weekly Live Group Learning & Practice facilitated by John Kinyon EVERY THURSDAY June 4, 2026 - December 3, 2026 10-Noon PT | 12-2p CT | 1-3p ET | 7-9p CET Click to Jump Down to Course Outline CLICK BELOW TO EXPAND ZOOM COORDINATES Expand Download & import - [Demonstration of an MYL Process for Peace ](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-demo-event/) - Demonstration of Peace with John Kinyon Demonstration of an MYL Process for Peace with John Kinyon Saturday, August 8, 2026 5-6pm Pacific Time [Time Zone Converter] In this session, John will invite sharing from people who attend about their struggles for peace in their personal, work, and community lives, and also in society and the - [Foundations of Mediate Your Life Homepage (August 2026)](https://johnkinyon.com/foundations-of-myl-august-2026-homepage/) - Foundations of Mediate Your Life Training COURSE HOMEPAGE Wednesday August 4 and 11, 2026 10am-12pm Pacific (PST) | 1pm-3pm Eastern (EST) | 7pm-9pm Central Europe (CET) About This 2-week Introduction course is designed specifically for those wanting to pursue any Mediate Your Life (MYL) training, and who have little or no previous experience with Nonviolent - [Mediate Your Life Webinar](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-webinar/) - Mediate Your Life Conversation with John Kinyon Mediate Your Life Conversation with John: NEW Developments and Evolution of the Programs with John Kinyon Thursday, July 30, 2026 7-8pm Pacific Time [Time Zone Converter] In this free conversation space, John will share about the newest developments and evolution of the MYL training programs, respond to questions, - [MYL Mediation & Coaching Program](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-mediation-and-coaching-program/) - Mediate Your Life Year-long Training Train with John Kinyon Mediate Your Life Year-long TrainingDo you want to contribute to more peace, connection and collaborative solutions to problems and conflicts in the world by helping people find the "3rd Chair" of wise, aware, loving presence? Join this online program and learn the MYL 3Chair model to - [Mediate Your Life Mindfulness](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-mindfulness/) - Mediate Your Life Mindfulness Mediate Your Life Mindfulness This 6-week course is an experiential journey of cultivating awareness within ourselves, in our relationships, and in everyday life. It will be less about learning concepts and more about developing the inner capacity to return to ourselves especially in moments of stress, disconnection, and conflict. Cultivate inner - [MYL Mediation & Coaching Program Certification](https://johnkinyon.com/certification/) - MYL Certification Participants of the Mediate Your Life Year-long Training can choose between a Certificate of Completion or becoming Mediate Your Life Certified. The image below shows the ways to train with Mediate Your Life: CERTIFICATION MEDIATE YOUR LIFE YEAR-LONG TRAINING To receive MYL Certification, a participant successfully completes the program of both the 6-month - [MYL Mediation & Coaching Program Application](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-program-application/) - MYL Mediation & Coaching Program Application TUITION $2,400 for each 6 Month Training ($400/month) The tuition is for each of the two 6 month trainings of the 12 month program, and it holds your spot in the training. Our policy is that you are financially committing to the whole 6 months. After the first month, - [Help with Conflict](https://johnkinyon.com/help-with-conflict/) - Mediation with John Kinyon - Mediation with Individuals & Organizations - From Conflict to Collaboration and Emergent Solutions With his highly effective Mediate Your Life model and mediation process, John provides organizations (founders, board members, leadership, management, teams and co-workers), adult families and family businesses, and individuals with a way to use the creative power of - [MYL Directory](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-directory/) - MYL CERTIFIED DIRECTORY Being MYL Certified is the recognition of a level of knowledge, skill, and experience with the Mediate Your Life approach to being a guide for others through conflict. It means clarity with the MYL structure and processes, as well as an attitude of humility and curiosity in relation to ongoing self learning, - [MYL Journey](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-journey/) - Mediate Your Life Journey Train with an MYL Certified Trainer Mediate Your Life Journey This training gives you a structure, maps, and practical skills to create the relationships, life, and world you want through how you navigate conflict situations. Join the Journey and become a guide for yourself using the MYL map of human conflict - [MYL Conflict Coaching Training 2026-27 Program 2 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/conflict-coaching-training-2026-homepage-option-2/) - MYL Program Conflict Coaching Training Homepage 6-Month Weekly Live Group Learning & Practice facilitated by John Kinyon August 18/19, 2026 - February 16/17, 2027 Tuesdays: 7-9pm Pacific Time (PST) Wednesdays: 7:30-9:30am India (IST) | 10am-12pm Singapore (SST) 12-2pm Australia (AEST) | 2-4pm New Zealand (NZST) Click to Jump Down to Course Outline CLICK BELOW TO - [About](https://johnkinyon.com/about/) - Meet the Founder of Mediate Your LifeJohn Kinyon has devoted his life and career to human connection and the ability to shift from conflict to empathic understanding and collaborative, emergent solutions through language, awareness, and communication for navigating consciousness. John is an internationally renowned mediator known for in his Mediate Your Life approach. He is - [Help with Conflict: Interpersonal & Group](https://johnkinyon.com/help-with-conflict-interpersonal/) - Mediation with Organizations - Organizational Conflict Mediation - Conflict Resolution, Reconciliation, and Emergent Solutions Over his 25 years of mediation experience, John has specialized in offering his MYL mediation process with founders, board members, leadership, management, teams and co-workers. People in the mediation process have the opportunity to learn communication and mediation skills and are - [MYL Mediation and Coaching Program 2: 2026: Mediation Training Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/mediation-training-program2-2026-homepage/) - MYL Mediation Training Homepage 6-Month Live Group Learning & Practice January 6/7 - July 7/8, 2026 Facilitated by John Kinyon Tuesdays: 7-9pm Pacific Time (PST) TIME CHANGE STARTING MARCH 10/11 Wednesdays: 7:30-9:30am India (IST) | 10am-12pm Singapore (SST) 12-2pm Australia (AEST) | 2-4pm New Zealand (NZST) Jump to Course Outline CLICK BELOW TO EXPAND ZOOM - [MYL Mediation and Coaching Training Certification](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-training-certification/) - MYL Mediation & Coaching Training Certification SUMMARY OF CERTIFICATION REQUIREMENTS: Completed Attendance and Peer Practice Tracking sheets for Mediation and Coaching. 8 Assessment Forms from working with 2 non-paying/non-MYL mediation clients through Orientation, Pre-Mediation, Mutual Understanding, and Agreements sessions. 8 Assessment Forms from working with at least 4 different non-paying/non-MYL coaching clients, with each of - [MYL Mediation & Coaching Program Registration](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-mediation-and-coaching-program-registration/) - MYL Mediation & Coaching Program Registration SCHEDULEThe year-long MYL program is divided into two 6-month segments: Conflict Coaching Training and Mediation Training. And there are 2 program options offered - one for the Americas/Europe/Africa/Middle East time zones, and one for Asia/South Pacific time zones - for the weekly live online classes. Time Zone Converter PROGRAM - [Community Healing Space](https://johnkinyon.com/community/) - Community Space with John Kinyon - Monthly - Reconciliation and Healing: Sharing and Navigating Our Challenges Monday June 8, 5-7pm Pacific Time Wednesday June 10, 10am-12pm Pacific Time [Time Zone Converter] This online community space is a place to gather to share the challenges we are facing and receive learning and support from John, - [MYL Intro to NVC Homepage (May)](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-intro-to-nvc-may/) - Introduction to Nonviolent Communication for MYL Programs HOMEPAGE Introduction to Nonviolent Communication for MYL Programs Homepage Wednesday May 20 and May 27 10am-12pm Pacific (PST) | 1pm-3pm Eastern (EST) | 7pm-9pm Central Europe (CET) About This 2-week Introduction to Nonviolent Communication (NVC) course is designed specifically for those wanting to pursue one of the MYL - [MYL Mediation & Coaching Program Registration Pricing Options (Program 1)](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-mediation-and-coaching-program-registration-option-1-price-options/) - MYL Mediation & Coaching Program Registration for Program 1 SCHEDULE FOR PROGRAM 1The year-long MYL program is divided into two 6-month segments: Conflict Coaching Training June 4, 2026 - Dec 3, 2026 Mediation Training January - June, 2027 This registration page is for Program 1 Americas/Europe/Africa/Middle East Time Zones THURSDAYS from: 10am - 12pm Pacific - [Podcast](https://johnkinyon.com/mediateyourlifepodcast/) - Mediate Your Life Podcast LISTEN ON APPLE LISTEN ON SPOTIFY I'm so happy and delighted to share with you the latest episode of the Mediate Your Life podcast - a dialogue with Richard Schwartz, founder of the internationally renowned work of Internal Family Systems (IFS). For those of you who have been with me and - [Help with Conflict: Organizations](https://johnkinyon.com/help-with-conflict-organizations/) - Organizational Training - Leadership Through Conflict - Creating Emergent Solutions to Problems John offers consulting and training in a model and practices that develop leadership in stuck problems and conflicts. Conflict becomes an opportunity to grow and enhance leadership capacities and abilities in self-connection, understanding across differences, collaboration, and innovation through the process. John's MYL - [MYL Mediation and Coaching Program 1: 2025: Mediation Training Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/mediation-training-program1-2025-homepage/) - MYL Mediation Training Homepage 6-Month Live Group Learning & Practice 11/06/25 - 05/21/26 Facilitated by John Kinyon EVERY THURSDAY 10a-12p PT | 12-2p CT | 1-3p ET | 7-9p CET Jump to Course Outline CLICK BELOW TO EXPAND ZOOM Expand Download & import the iCalendar (.ics) files to your calendar system. Zoom Link https://us02web.zoom.us/j/87075798981?pwd=sSZEQX2zy90jf2D6Eza7kUfnBqk2Ud.1 Meeting - [What is Mediate Your Life](https://johnkinyon.com/mediate-your-life-map/) - - Mediate Your Life - WHAT DOES IT MEAN? Being grounded and centered within when mediating conflict Responding to Other from compassionate presence Transforming internal reactions and pain Bridging differences and healing divides Feeling confidence in skills to be a guide through conflict Facilitating emotional reconciliation and forgiveness Mediate Your Life Map What is - [MYL Weekend Retreat Homepage (May 15-17)](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-weekend-retreat-homepage-may15/) - MYL Online Weekend Retreat at Home Homepage May 15-17, 2026 Friday, May 15th 7:30pm-9:00pm Central Europe Time Saturday, May 16th 2:00pm-4:00pm, 6:00pm-8:00pm CET Sunday, May 17th 8:00am-10:00am CET [Time Zone Converter] Schedule The weekend retreat will begin with an opening on Friday [full schedule below]. The following two days, there will be three two-hour - [MYL Weekend Retreat](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-weekend-retreat/) - Where Mediation Becomes Meditation Weekend Retreat at Home May 15-17, 2026For Europe/Africa/Middle East Time Zones Friday 7:30pm-9:00pm Central Europe Time Saturday 2:00pm-4:00pm, 6:00pm-8:00pm CET Sunday 8:00am-10:00am CET [Time Zone Converter] A path to peace, wellbeing, and the life you want through the difficult moments we face. Join John and a community from around the world on May - [MYL Weekend Retreat Homepage (May 1-2)](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-weekend-retreat-homepage-may1/) - MYL Online Weekend Retreat at Home Homepage May 1-2, 2026 For Americas Time Zones Friday 6:30pm-8:00pm Pacific Time Saturday 9:00am-11:00am, 1:00pm-3:00pm, 6:00pm-8:00pm PT Add to Calendar Schedule The weekend retreat will begin with an opening on Friday evening at 6:30pm Pacific [full schedule below]. The following day, there will be three two-hour experiential sessions, - [Empathic Communication Resource Page](https://johnkinyon.com/resource-page/) - Empathic Communication Resources Page Contacting John Reach out any time to me by email: john@johnkinyon.com, or text/phone 415-710-2777. For more information on me and my approach see www.johnkinyon.com Learning Materials [click on links to access] I recommend starting with reading the Choosing Peace book I co-wrote (pdf link below), and looking over the General Handouts. - [Learning Materials: MYL App](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-app/) - Mediate Your Life App stay tuned for a new version of the app The Mediate Your Life App is an audio guide to help you when you are in conflict with someone in your life, or with yourself - a clash of differences, the pain of unresolved hurt, a breakdown of communication or connection. Listening - [Help with Conflict: Individuals](https://johnkinyon.com/help-with-conflict-individuals/) - Conflict Consulting - Individual Consulting Sessions - One-On-One Support Individual one-on-one sessions are based in the Mediate Your Life approach. Sessions with John help you navigate any conflict situation to reach wellbeing and new possibilities. In the process you receive skills training and gain access to practical and supportive learning resources. The Approach is based in - [Contact](https://johnkinyon.com/contact/) - CONTACT JOHN Please verify your request * Submit - [Mediate Your Life Workshop Resource Page](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-workshop-resource-page/) - MYL Workshop Resources MYL Workshop Resources The MYL Model Expand The MYL Model MYL Map of Conflict Regions and Territories MYL Triangle of 10 Processes 3Chair Model: The Heart of MYL Triad Model of Conversation & Consciousness MYL Mediation Expand MYL Mediation Mediation Process and Phases slides 5-Step Mediation Process and 9 Skills Three Types - [Community Healing Space: Reconciliation and Healing](https://johnkinyon.com/reconciliation-and-healing/) - - Community Healing Space - Reconciliation & Healing Reconciliation & Healingwith John Kinyon Fridays, 1-2:30pm PT (Paused until March) Join this safe and supportive space to share life's challenges and experience healing through the support from John and the group. Life challenges shared can be personal, work-related, or what's happening on larger societal levels. These - [5-Day MYL Workshop Retreat in Ireland](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-workshop-retreat-ireland/) - 5-Day MYL In-Person Retreat Teach Bhríde, Ireland CONFLICT AS A JOURNEY OF HEALING & TRANSFORMATION Being a Guide for Others Through Life's Challenges to New Possibilities 5-DAY MYL IN-PERSON RESIDENTIAL RETREAT January 28 - February 1, 2026 Teach Bhríde, Tullow, County Carlow Ireland FOR LEADERSHIP COACHES, MEDIATORS & THERAPISTS Register MEET THE - [MYL Mediation & Coaching Program Registration Pricing Options (Program 2)](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-mediation-and-coaching-program-registration-option-2-price-options/) - MYL Mediation & Coaching Program Registration for Program 2 SCHEDULE FOR PROGRAM 2The year-long MYL program is divided into two 6-month segments: Mediation Training January 6/7, 2026 - June 16/17, 2026 Conflict Coaching Training August, 2026 - February, 2027 This registration page is for Program 2 For Asia/South Pacific Time Zones TUESDAYS/WEDNESDAYS from: Tue 7pm - [Journey Through the Three Chairs to Resolve Any Conflict](https://johnkinyon.com/journey-through-the-three-chairs-to-resolve-any-conflict/) - Journey Through the Three Chairs to Resolve Any Conflict Free Webinar Journey Through the Three Chairs to Resolve Any Conflict Join this free 90-minute webinar with John Kinyon held at two different times to accomodate international time zones. Register below to join. A Note from John: To me, the Three Chairs of mediation represent the - [MYL Conflict Coaching Training 2025 Option 2 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/conflict-coaching-training-2025-homepage-option-2/) - MYL Program Conflict Coaching Training Homepage 6-Month Weekly Live Group Learning & Practice facilitated by John Kinyon June 17/18 to December 16/17, 2025 Tuesdays: 7-9pm Pacific Time (PST) Wednesdays: 7:30-9:30am India (IST) | 10am-12pm Singapore (SST) 12-2pm Australia (AEST) | 2-4pm New Zealand (NZST) Click to Jump Down to Course Outline CLICK BELOW TO EXPAND - [Healing Spaces for the Societal Challenges We Face](https://johnkinyon.com/across-the-divide/) - Healing Spaces for the Societal Challenges We Face Healing for the Family: Finding Understanding and Action in Speaking and ListeningFacilitated by John Kinyon Upcoming Events Wednesday November 19, 5-7pm Pacific Time Monday November 24, 10am-12pm Pacific Time ______________________ The theme - [MYL Conflict Coaching Training 2025 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/conflict-coaching-training-2025-homepage/) - Mediate Your Life Program Conflict Coaching Training Homepage 6-Month Weekly Live Group Learning & Practice facilitated by John Kinyon EVERY THURSDAY May 1, 2025 - Oct 23, 2025 10-1p PT | 12-2p CT | 1-3p ET | 7-9p CET Click to Jump Down to Course Outline CLICK BELOW TO EXPAND ZOOM COORDINATES Expand Download & import - [MYL Certification Membership](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-certification-membership-registration/) - MYL Certification Membership Registration MYL Certification MembershipThe MYL Certification Membership is an intimate community facilitated by John Kinyon. Being a member of this mentoring group includes meeting live online as a community on a bi-monthly basis plus a one-on-one 30 minute call with John each month. The intention of this mentoring group is to support - [Testimonials](https://johnkinyon.com/testimonials/) - Testimonials The 18-week Mediate Your Life course has come to an end, and my heart is full of insights and gratitude. When I attended the IIT last year, I deeply admired the empathy skills of the NVC trainers. Watching them heal speakers through empathic dialogue felt almost magical and incredible-I silently wished that one day I could - [NVC + Yoga Workshop](https://johnkinyon.com/nvc-yoga-workshop/) - As Within, So Without NVC + Yoga Workshop As Within, So Without is a transformative three-part workshop series that unites the wisdom of yoga with the heart-centered practices of Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and conflict transformation. Led by John Kinyon and Nat Kendall this unique program bridges together conscious communication and yoga practice. FALL 2025 October 4, 11, - [Learning Materials: MYL GuideBook](https://johnkinyon.com/guidebook/) - Mediate Your Life GUIDEBOOK A Visual Guide Navigating Life's Challenges with Self and Others This interactive guidebook serves as both a visual guide and practical hands-on tool for anyone looking to strengthen their ability to navigate life's challenges. Using the Mediate Your Life map, you will be guided step-by-step through processes designed to help you - [MYL Mediation and Coaching Program: 2024: Mediation Training Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/mediation-training-program-2024-homepage/) - Mediate Your Life Professional Mediation Training Homepage 6-Month Live Group Learning & Practice 09/05/24 - 04/10/25 Facilitated by John Kinyon EVERY THURSDAY 11-1p PT | 1-3p CT | 2-4p ET | 8-10p CET Jump to Course Outline CLICK BELOW TO EXPAND ZOOM Expand Download & import the iCalendar (.ics) files to your calendar system. Zoom - [Learning Materials: Posters](https://johnkinyon.com/mediate-your-life-posters/) - Mediate Your Life POSTERS Discover your inner compass Showcase a clear overview of universal feelings and needs with visually engaging aids for conscious awareness, empathy, authenticity, and connection. These posters will support mindful self-connection and compassionate communication in every aspect of life. POSTERS Want a poster in your room? There are 3 options to choose - [Learning Materials](https://johnkinyon.com/learning-materials/) - Mediate Your Life LEARNING MATERIALS Guidebook This interactive guidebook serves as both a visual guide and practical hands-on tool for everyone looking to strengthen their ability to navigate life's challenges. The Mediate Your Life Map will guide you step-by-step through processes designed to help you face, navigate through and transform any challenge in your life. - [MYL Mediation and Coaching Program: 2024: Conflict Coaching Online Training 2024 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/conflict-coaching-training-program-2024-homepage/) - Mediate Your Life Professional Program Conflict Coach Training Homepage 6-Month Weekly Live Group Learning & Practice facilitated by John Kinyon EVERY THURSDAY 02/08 - 07/25/24 11-1p PT | 1-3p CT | 2-4p ET | 8-10p CET Click to Jump Down to Course Outline CLICK BELOW TO EXPAND ZOOM COORDINATES Expand Download & import the iCalendar - [Homepage: 2020: Foundations Self-Guided Program Main Page](https://johnkinyon.com/foundations-self-guided-program-main-page/) - Welcome and Orientation This program is self-guided in that it's up to you what amount of learning and practice you commit yourself to doing each day, week, and month, and also how you structure your learning and self-training and choose from the many learning resources, options, and community practice and connection opportunities. For my part, - [Homepage: 2020: Foundations 8-Week Course September 2020 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/foundations-8-week-course-sept-2020-homepage/) - Foundations of Empathy & Mindfulness in Conversation 8 Week Online Program September-November 2020 Main/Home Page Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays Sept 15 - Nov 3, 3-4pm Pacific (California) Time (5-6pm Central/6-7pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom - [Homepage: 2020: Foundations 8-Week Course November 2020 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/foundations-8-week-course-nov-2020-homepage/) - Foundations of Empathy & Mindfulness in Conversation 8 Week Online Program November-December 2020 Main/Home Page Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays November 10 - December 29, 11am-12pm Pacific (California) Time (1-2pm Central/2-3pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom - [Learning Materials: Workbook Thank You Free Version](https://johnkinyon.com/workbook-thank-you-free-version/) - Congratulations! You're on your way to changing the world by becoming more connected. Here is the workbook, along with two printable worksheets that you can use alongside the exercises in this workbook. Click to download the workbook and printable pdfs Mindful Conversation Workbook Feelings vs Faux Feelings Feelings & Needs Sheet - [Learning Materials: Workbook Thank You](https://johnkinyon.com/workbook-thank-you/) - Congratulations! You're on your way to changing the world by becoming more connected. Below is the workbook, along with two printable worksheets that you can use alongside the exercises in this workbook. You will also receive an e-mail with these links. Download the workbook and printable pdfs: Mindful Conversation Workbook Feelings vs Faux Feelings Feelings - [Homepage: 2020: Singapore NVC-Based Mediation Program Learning Support Page](https://johnkinyon.com/learning-support-page-nvc-based-mediation-program/) - LEARNING SUPPORT PAGE NVC-Based Mediation Program Links to Video/Audio Recordings Self-Connection and Intensity Practice [full audio] Self-Connection Practice audio Intensity Practice audio 5-Step Mediation Model video [click to open] 5-Step Mediation Model audio Mediation Model 9 Skills_Pulling by the Ears video Mediation Model 9 Skills_Pulling by the Ears audio Mediation Model 9 Skills_Emergency Empathy and Tracking video - [Homepage: 2020: Singapore NVC-Based Mediation Program 2020](https://johnkinyon.com/nvc-based-mediation-program-singapor-2020/) - Singapore NVC-Based Mediation Program 2020 Homepage BI-WEEKLY LIVE GROUP SESSION ZOOM CALLS: SATURDAYS APRIL 4 - July 25, 2020 (SINGAPORE TIME) April 4 April 18 May 16 May 30 June 13 June 27 July 11 (?) July 25 TIME OF ZOOM SESSION CALLS: 8:00AM-12:00PM SINGAPORE TIME How to Attend the Zoom Sessions Links to recordings - [Homepage: 2023: Mediate Your Life Community Practice Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-community-practice-homepage/) - Mediate Your Life Community Learning & Practice Navigate Your Life's Challenges with the Power of Conflict with John Kinyon * Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays 11:00am - 12:30pm Pacific Time (1:00-2:30pm Central/2:00-3:30pm Eastern Time/8-9:30pm CEU) See information below for the link to access - [Homepage: 2023: Mediate Your Life 15-Week Course January 2023 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/myl-15-week-course-january-2023-homepage/) - Mediate Your Life Training Navigate Your Life's Challenges with the Power of Conflict Online Course with John Kinyon * Course Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays 12:00pm - 2:00pm Pacific Time (2:00-4:00pm Central/3:00-5:00pm Eastern Time/9-11pm CEU) See information below for the link to access the - [Homepage: 2020: Intermediate 4-Week Course Nov 2020 SC&IP Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/intermediate-4-week-course-nov-2020-homepage/) - Intermediate 4-Week Online Course Self-Connection & Intensity Practice Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Wednesdays Nov 18 - Dec 16, 2020, 3:00-4:30pm Pacific Time (5-6:30pm Central/6-7:30pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom group learning and practice sessions. You - [Homepage: 2021: Intermediate 4-Week Course May 2021 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/intermediate-4-week-course-may-2021-homepage/) - Intermediate 4-Week Online Course Responding with Compassion and Resilience May - June 2021 Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Thursdays May 20 - June 10, 2021, 11:00am-12:30pm Pacific Time (1-2:30pm Central/2-3:30pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom - [Homepage: 2021: Intermediate 4-Week Course March 2021 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/intermediate-4-week-course-march-2021-homepage/) - Intermediate 4-Week Online Course Responding with Compassion and Resilience Main/Home Page Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Thursdays March 18 - April 8, 2021, 11:00am-12:30pm Pacific Time (1-2:30pm Central/2-3:30pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom group learning and practice - [Homepage: 2021: Intermediate 4-Week Course Feb 2021 EE&NBN Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/intermediate-4-week-course-feb-2021-homepage/) - Intermediate 4-Week Online Course Speaking and Listening with Empathic Presence and Courageous Honesty Main/Home Page Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Thursdays Feb 11 - March 4, 2021, 4:00-5:30pm Pacific Time (6-7:30pm Central/7-8:30pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom - [Homepage: 2020: Intermediate 12-Week Program June 2020 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/intermediate-12-week-program-june-2020-homepage/) - Conflict to Connection in Conversation with Ourselves and Others Intermediate 12 Week Online Course Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Wednesdays June 17 - Sept 9, 3:00-4:30pm Pacific Time (5-6:30pm Central/6-7:30pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom group - [Homepage: 2022: Intermediate 15-Week Course September 2022 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/intermediate-15-week-course-september-2022-homepage/) - Mediate Your Life Training to Navigate Life's Challenges From Conflict to Connection 15 Week Online Course September - December 2022 with John Kinyon * Course Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays September 13 - December 20, 2022, 11:00am - 1:00pm Pacific Time (1:00-3:00pm Central/2:00-4:00pm - [Homepage: 2020: Intermediate 12-Week Program Sept 2020 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/intermediate-12-week-program-sept-2020-homepage/) - Conflict to Connection in Conversations with Ourselves and Others Intermediate 12 Week Online Program Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays Sept 29 - Dec 15, 2020, 1:00-2:30pm Pacific Time (3-4:30pm Central/4-5:30pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom - [Homepage: 2021: Intermediate 12-Week Program July 2021 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/intermediate-12-week-course-july-2021-homepage/) - Conflict to Connection in Conversations with Ourselves and Others Intermediate 12 Week Online Course July - October 2021 Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays July 20 - October 5, 2021, 1:30-3:00pm Pacific Time (3:30-5:00pm Central/4:30-6:00pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to - [Homepage: 2021: Intermediate 12-Week Program January 2021 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/intermediate-12-week-course-jan-2021-homepage/) - Conflict to Connection in Conversations with Ourselves and Others Intermediate 12 Week Online Course January - March 2021 Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays January 12 - March 30, 2021, 2:00-3:30pm Pacific Time (4-5:30pm Central/5-6:30pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to - [Homepage: 2020: Intermediate 12-Week Program Feb 2020 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/intermediate-12-week-program-feb-2020-homepage/) - Conflict to Connection in Conversations with Ourselves and Others Intermediate 12 Week Online Program Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Wednesdays February 26 - May 20, 1:00-2:30pm Pacific Time (4:00-5:30pm EST) (skipping March 25) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom - [Homepage: 2020: Intermediate 12-Week Program Feb 2020 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/intermediate-12-week-program-september-2020/) - Conflict to Connection in Conversations with Ourselves and Others Intermediate 12 Week Online Program Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Wednesdays February 26 - May 20, 1:00-2:30pm Pacific Time (4:00-5:30pm EST) (skipping March 25) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom - [Homepage: 2021: Intermediate 12-Week Program April 2021 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/intermediate-12-week-course-april-2021-homepage/) - Conflict to Connection in Conversations with Ourselves and Others Intermediate 12 Week Online Course April - June 2021 Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays April 13 - June 29, 2021, 1:30-3:00pm Pacific Time (3:30-5:00pm Central/4:30-6:00pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to - [Homepage: 2021: Intermediate 12-Week Course November 2021 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/intermediate-12-week-course-november-2021-homepage/) - Conflict to Connection in Conversations with Ourselves and Others Intermediate 12 Week Online Course November 2021 - January 2022 Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays November 2, 2021 - January 18, 2022, 11:00am - 12:30pm Pacific Time (1:00-2:30pm Central/2:00-3:30pm Eastern Time) See information below - [Homepage: 2022: Intermediate 12-Week Course February 2022 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/intermediate-12-week-course-february-2022-homepage/) - Conflict to Connection in Conversations with Ourselves and Others Intermediate 12 Week Online Course February - May 2022 Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Wednesdays February 9 - May 25, 2022, 1:00 - 3:00pm Pacific Time (3:00-5:00pm Central/4:00-6:00pm Eastern Time) [Skipping class sessions on weeks - [Homepage: 2020: Foundations 8-Week Course June 2020 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/foundations-8-week-course-june-2020-homepage/) - Foundations of Empathy & Mindfulness in Conversation 8 Week Online Program June-July 2020 Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Wednesdays June 10 - July 29, 1-2pm Pacific (California) Time (3-4pm Central/4-5pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom group - [Homepage: 2021:Foundations 8-Week Course March 2021 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/foundations-8-week-course-march-2021-homepage/) - Foundations of Empathy & Mindfulness in Conversation 8 Week Online Course March-May 2021 Main/Home Page Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays March 23 - May 11, 12-1pm Pacific (California) Time (2-3pm Central/3-4pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom - [Homepage: 2021: Foundations 8-Week Course January 2021 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/foundations-8-week-course-jan-2021-homepage/) - Foundations of Empathy & Mindfulness in Conversation 8 Week Online Program January-March 2021 Main/Home Page Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays January 12 - March 2, 4-5pm Pacific (California) Time (6-7pm Central/7-8pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom - [Homepage: 2021: Foundations 8-Week Course May 2021 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/foundations-8-week-course-may-2021-homepage/) - Foundations of Empathy & Mindfulness in Conversation 8 Week Online Course May-July 2021 Main/Home Page Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays May 25 - July 13, 12-1pm Pacific (California) Time (2-3pm Central/3-4pm Eastern Time) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom - [Homepage: 2019: Foundations 8-Week Course Homepage- October 2019](https://johnkinyon.com/foundations-8-week-course-homepage-september-2020/) - Mindfulness in Conversation 8 Week Online Course Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays Oct. 8-Nov. 26, 5-6:30pm Pacific Time See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom group learning and practice sessions. You will need to download the Zoom app on - [Homepage: 2020: Foundations 8-Week Course Feb 2020 Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/foundations-8-week-course-feb-2020-homepage/) - Foundations of Empathy & Mindfulness in Conversation 8 Week Online Program Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Wednesdays February 12 - April 8, 4-5pm Pacific Time (7-8pm EST) (skipping March 25) See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom group learning and - [Homepage: 2019: Foundations 8-Week Course Homepage](https://johnkinyon.com/foundations-8-week-course-homepage/) - Mindfulness in Conversation 8 Week Online Course Homepage Weekly live online group learning and practice sessions with John, on Zoom video conferencing system Tuesdays Oct. 8-Nov. 26, 5-6:30pm Pacific Time See information below for the link to access the weekly Zoom group learning and practice sessions. 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